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in my senior drama class i had to play gordon ramsay for a film project but we could only film in school so we had to try to find a closed off room to use. the thing is the room wasn’t exactly soundproof and apparently someone heard us and that’s the story of how the vice principal and four freshmen walked in on me wearing a chef’s hat and yelling at my friend because her squid was so raw i could still hear it telling spongebob to fuck off
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Anonymous said: i was trying to do anal with my boyfriend last night, he got 2 fingers in but it was feeling uncomfortable, and i said let's wait until tomorrow. he insisted that his dick could fit in comfortably and that "let's just try it now it'll be fine" and he got it in and it HURT so badly i had a panic attack and cried for 2 hours.. i assume something wasn't done right??? i just don't know what :( i like 1 finger in my bum but anything else tickles/hurts
Yeah, do you know what was done wrong? You said no, and he insisted/pressured you into it. Anal sex is not something that can be enjoyed unless the receiver is 100% ready, relaxed, and willing. You were right to want to take it one step at a time and voice how you were feeling. He is a complete piece of shit for not respecting that. Honestly I hope you are as disgusted as I am, and you’ll do something about that. I’m sorry that happened :((
What is it with guys? I’m a guy, or maybe I should say a man. If a woman says “no” or “stop” I stop. I do not continue. I do not try to coerce her into believing it will be fine. Why? Because I respect women. I believe in and respect personal and sexual boundaries. True loving relationships are based on mutual respect, communication and co-operation. Not what was described by that anon, whom I feel very sorry for.
And yes. As someone who respects women, I do feel constantly compelled to apologize for those men who don’t. Those who feel they have a right to treat women terribly. Call me old fashioned if you like, I really don’t give a fuck. It won’t change the way I treat others.